Gabriela Wentworth

Is this God, or is it just fear?

In about two hours you will know your next step. And you will know why you chose it.

★★★★★

“I was trying to figure out too much at once! This really helped me figure out a simple next step.”

Maria F. · Stay at home mom

★★★★★

“I have the Decision Map on my fridge. It has been so helpful in helping move past my indecision.”

Taylor W. · High school coach

★★★★★

“Gabi truly gave me a process that helped me see some things I couldn’t see on my own.”

Shira G. · Mom & ministry leader

The best part You do not need to hear God better. You do not need a quiet house. You do not need to fast. You need two hours and a pen.
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What changes

In two hours, this is what is different.

Right now

  • Six things feel like one big question.
  • You are not sure if the rush is real.
  • You carry things that were never yours.
  • The loudest voice keeps winning.
  • You have not said what you want.
  • At 2am you start over.

In two hours

  • You know the one thing you are deciding.
  • You know if the rush is real. Usually it is not.
  • You put down what was never yours.
  • You know which voice to trust.
  • You said what you want. Out loud.
  • You have a step, a date, and your reasons.
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What it showed them

★★★★★

“I had been having a really difficult time trying to decide if I should leave a women’s group for over a year. Turns out I was basing this decision on some things that were actually out of my control! I have felt a lot more peace about my decision since.”

Rachel S.Coach & sales rep

★★★★★

“The moment that really stood out was the moment I finally admitted what I actually wanted. When I told my husband, he apparently wasn’t even surprised! He said he’d been waiting for me to say it…”

Fiona T.Wife & nurse

★★★★★

“The stage on what other voices are affecting my decisions really was so helpful. I had no idea that there were too many cooks in the kitchen. It was challenging but so needed.”

Emily P.Biblical counselor

You know this feeling

You have a decision in front of you.

You have prayed about it. More than once.

You asked a few people. You got four different answers.

You keep waiting for it to feel clear. It has not.

Is that too much to ask? No.

The shift

It is not that you cannot hear.

Six things are tangled into one question.

They all feel the same inside. They do not have the same answer.

So you pray about the whole knot. And nothing comes clear.

One question Six different things The choice itself A fear A grief A fact you can look up A talk you keep avoiding ?

That last one is the one almost nobody names. It is usually the reason the choice will not move. I will tell you what it is further down this page.

Imagine when you

Imagine what changes.

You go to bed and the loop does not start. It is on paper now. Paper holds it better than 2am does.

Someone asks what you decided. You have a real answer. Not “I am still praying about it.” An actual sentence.

The doubt shows up Thursday night. You read the page you wrote on Monday. It tells you why you chose this.

The next hard choice comes. You know what to do first. You have a way through now. It does not leave when this one is over.

Who this is for

This is for the woman who:

And not for
  • Someone who wants the choice made for her. This will not do that.
  • Someone waiting for a sign, and nothing else will do.
  • Someone in crisis or in danger. Please call someone today. This is a workbook. It is not enough.
What is included

Five stages. Nine worksheets.

Stage One

Pause and Stabilize

Name what you are carrying today. Find out if the hurry is telling you the truth.

You stop trying to think clearly while everything in you is ringing.
Stage Two

Clarify the Situation

Pull the knot apart. Sort each piece into yours to decide, yours to influence, or never yours.

You put down four things that were never yours. The choice gets small enough to hold.
Stage Three

Separate and Test

Lay out every voice in the choice. Take the one you cannot shake. Run it through seven questions.

The loudest voice stops winning just for being loud.
Stage Four

Seek What Is Needed

Find out if something is really missing. If it is, turn it into one task with a name and a date.

You stop gathering forever and calling it discernment.
Stage Five

Choose and Move Forward

Say what you want. Take the smallest true step. Write down why.

Thursday's doubt cannot undo what you decided on Monday.
And the sixth thing in the knot?

You have never said what you want. Not out loud. Not to anyone who could do something about it.

That is the first question in Stage Five. It comes before the step on purpose. You cannot discern a choice you are not in.

Plus the Reference Shelf

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Before you buy

For this to work, what you need is:

You do not need a quiet house, a season of fasting, a spiritual director, or a word from anyone.

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About

For years I was the woman other people came to for advice, and I could not make my own decisions.

I would pray about the same thing for months. I would ask five people. I would wait for a feeling that did not come, and then wonder what was wrong with me that everyone else seemed to hear God and I did not.

The shift

What I finally figured out is that I was never bad at hearing. I was bad at sorting. I was handing God a knot of six things and asking for one answer.

I am Gabi. I teach Christian women to tell the difference between God’s leading and their own fear, so they can decide and stop circling.

This is the process I built for myself first. It is the one I have walked women through for years, and this is the first time it has been on paper.

Gabriela Wentworth

Messages I got

A message from a woman who worked the kit A message from a woman who worked the kit
The offer
$23

One payment. Yours to keep.

The guarantee

Do Stage One and Stage Two. If nothing has moved, email me and I will refund you. No form. Just tell me you did the work.

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One honest thing

You have already been carrying this a while.

Nothing bad happens if you close this page. The choice will still be here next month.

That is the problem. Waiting is not neutral. Things settle while you are not looking. Then you are living inside a result you never picked.

That is how a woman ends up resentful about a life she never chose.

Two hours. Twenty-three dollars.

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Questions

Before you decide.

How long does it take?
About two hours. Most women do one stage a day for a week.
Do I have to print it?
No. Write on your screen, or in a notebook. Printing is easier for most.
Is this counseling?
No. It is a workbook. If what you are carrying is heavier than a choice, the kit says so, and tells you to go get real help.
I have done journals like this and nothing changed.
This is not journaling. Every page hands you something for the next one. You finish with a step and a date.
What if I do not finish?
Stage One and Stage Two alone will show you more than the last month did.
Will this work for my situation?
It works on anything with a choice in it. A job. Church. A relationship. A move. Whether to say something.
Do I need to be good at hearing God for this to work?
No. That is the whole point of it.

One decision. Two hours. A step you can stand behind.

You do not need to be more spiritual than you already are.

You need it out of your head and onto paper, in an order, where you can look at it.

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